Like many of you out there, I’ve had my fair share of sleepless nights where all I can really do is stare at the clock and hope the sun rises earlier than usual. I hate those nights and the mornings are even worse, the continual BEEP-BEEP-BEEP of the alarm forcing me to move into the awaiting busy world after one heck of a night. It’s irritating, it’s frustrating, and causes zombie-like behavior. Luckily, you and I aren’t alone with our sleeping woes. In an article located on CNN.com titled, Got insomnia? Here’s how to get your ZZZs back, I learned that sleeping problems affect a third of Americans in a given year and are very common thanks to the activities of our busy, busy lives. Many of us suffer from something called ‘secondary insomnia’ where the insomnia you’re experiencing (restless nights, etc.) is a symptom or a side-effect of some other problem. It could be anything from not finishing that project at work to still being hyped up by that last cup of coffee you drank around 3pm. However, there is a more serious condition known as ‘primary insomnia’ where sleeplessness lasts for more than one month and is not usually attributed to the going-ons of the everyday life – it is a disorder rather than a cause and effect like secondary insomnia. If you have been experiencing a loss of sleep for more than one month, you should definitely speak to your doctor. But, if you’re like me and sometimes deal with restless, sleepless nights try these methods offered by Dr. David Schulman, director of the Sleep Laboratory at Emory University in Atlanta:
1. Don’t stay in bed for longer than 20-30 minutes if you can’t fall asleep or go back to sleep after waking up. Why? According to Dr. Schulman, it can cause your body to become accustomed to being in bed without sleep and can be subconsciously ingrained – bad news if you’re trying to avoid becoming an insomniac.
2. Avoid caffeine within 8-10 hours of bedtime. There have been studies that show if you ingest caffeine (coffee, tea, or otherwise) at noon, it can remain in your system until 8 or 10 at night – this one explains a lot for me, note to self: stop drinking coffee at 3pm…
3. Avoid alcohol before bedtime. Alcohol can sometimes cause you to sleep lighter than usual thusly causing you to wake in the middle of the night – Hm, interesting factoid. Who knew?
4. Find light, relaxing activities to partake in if you can’t sleep. Try reading or listening to calm, soft music. It might help your overactive brain to pause and stop the flood of things do to, projects to finish, worries to worry about. I find that classical or very melodic music can do the trick – try Chopin or even Bach (the more calming a song, the better). My personal favorite, Sigur Ros.
5. Try the cool-down method. Take a warm bath or shower about 30-45 minutes before you go to bed. This let’s your body relax and the cooling sensation is very ‘sleep-inducing’.
So you see, you’re not alone in your restless, tossing and turning, up and down, frustrating sleepless night. We all experience nights where sleep seems to elude us, but what we do when this occurs makes the difference. Try these steps and if the insomnia continues speak to your doctor, it may be a more serious issue than you thought.
Monday through Friday I embarked on my journey into work, and the train (as some of you know) gives me time to sit, reflect on whatever is on my mind, or observe those around me.









